Quote of the Day:

"Allah always provide us with better things if we keep on trusting Him. Faith and hard work would help.."


Monday, October 18, 2010

Learn to listen and evaluate, will you?

When was the last time you saw me hiding my feelings? Good question! Naahh.. I was never good at it. There, i just answered my own question. One thing that people might not think i am good at is, I AM A GOOD LISTENER. In fact, i am willing to listen to thousands of stories at a time. Why? Because i realize that our life does not only depends on our own stories and experience. But too much different stories from different people can be very confusing. I mean, it should be the same stories but when the sources of info are different, well.. i know u understand what will happen, right? Still, I didn't say that i could not be a good listener. T__T

I'm quite confuse and my mind is being distracted since last week. Ahh.. I wish that things can be deleted easily. But yeah, even being an amnesian is not a good choice. Dealing with this messy mind can lead me to craziness. God, can u give 1 more chance to start everything all over again? I mean a better one for a brighter life. Wahh! Impossible. I reveal things happening in my life to people, to you, to him, to her, to everybody - i mean through this blog. In fact, too many stories right? Still, not everything are being exposed here. There are certain things that i choose i keep for myself and certain chosen people in my life. Someone always told me:

"You always speak for yourself and came out with your own thoughts when u think it is needed for you to do so.."

Yeah. Because that is who i am. Because that is who i was trained to be. No worries, i'm not as rebellious as u think i could be. Ohh, maybe a little but it depends, actually. Do you know why i always voice out my dissatisfaction and when i disagree with something? Obviously no, right? Here's the answer. When those people see you agreeing in almost every decision they made for you - even for those decision that u think u can actually fight back, they tend to take you for granted. They tend to think that you are not a person they can actually refer to - when your thoughts are actually needed! Especially when it comes to making decisions. Ohh i wish u know how much i hate that. And when u keep following their commands and orders, soon, they will never have respect on u. I mean, they'll step on you and punch and kick you. Well, literally. And trust me, i've been there before. But thank god, it was just for a while until one day, the other part of 'me' told me to change the way i think, act and respond. There! I turned myself to be who i am now. Don't hate me for all the thoughts i have for u, for him, for her, for anyone else. It's true, it might hurt but soon or later u'll try to understand. 

And 1 more thing that i've learnt from life:
"Learn to accept others' opinion. Not immediately accepting those opinions. But listen and evaluate. Pick the good one, but don't throw those that u think are bad. Soon or later, it might be useful. Again, listen and evaluate. Use your brain.."

Yeah! We need to spice up our life 'coz it shouldn't be tasteless.